Just a quick repost… I want to note before I post this, however… To all the women and teenage females who see this; if you have these kind of cruel people in your life or hear anyone trying to say you are bad, a slut, or anything else of those same emotionally abusive lies and attempts to guilt trip you or whatever they have in mind; please never think for a second they are right.
Having sex or being sexually active doesn’t serve as a rite of passage to becoming ye ol town slut. Sex is not a bad thing, they try to make you feel bad about it but that’s because they are too busy judging others and trying to damn others, while demeaning women and our self worth. Or, as they TRY, I should say.
Whether you had protected sex or not, it is okay. I promise more like than not these accusers have had their little slip ups too, but they’d never admit that. But statistically think about it for a sec. While they call us names, we know that -despite the denial of anti’s (they also still refuse to admit all the lives lost prior the end of Roe V Wade- truth hurts even darkspawn I guess -points to anyone who gets that reference without googling it……)
AS I WAS, so, approximately 1 in 3 women will have an abortion; the majority of these females already have children. Some have dreams, some just don’t want children or are not ready for them yet… That is commendable; being woman enough to admit the time is not right for whatever reason. That makes you the exact opposite of a killer or a bad woman.
While I am sharing good books / women’s stories, this 1 in 3 book is available on virtually every device now as well as in physical… I have a copy; if you have the means, you owe it to yourself to check it out. That book, regarding abortion and the women whom had decided to abort, is called 1 in 3: These Are Our Stories. This link will take you to it direct.
And just to make it clear; of course I have no affiliant links on my page; I share these things because women need to know what the truth is both medically, emotionally and physically. Right now, too many states (with more trying to join as we see) are under the legal obligation to first lie to the patient. Afterwards, the truth is shared but the point being, that is how relentless these abusive mind numbing people are.
You can let women do their lives while you do yours and still disagree but with so much less drama and anger, you do know the right, anti’s? I may not think adoption is a good choice but if she does, she has my support. Know why? IT IS HER CHOICE! HER BODY, HER LIFE, AND THE WELL BEING OF A POTENTIAL, FUTURE INNOCENT BABY IS AT RISK… SHE SHOULD AT LEAST NOT COME TO THAT AND BE SURPRISED BY HOW THESE COURTS WORK AGAINST WOMEN.
READ THE BOOK LADIES…I’LL EVEN SEND THE FIRST ONE TO YOU FREE OVER KINDLE (YOU CAN LOAN BOOKS FOR, 14?, DAYS LOL) IF YOU WANT TO READ IT BUT CAN’T GET IT JUST YET. GODS KNOW I UNDERSTAND THAT.
And while the Girls AND LOOK INTO THE FACTS OF HOW BOTH ADOPTION, GIVING BIRTH AND ABORTION IMPACT YOU. THERE ARE PLENTY OF WORLD WIDE HEALTH AND MEDICAL ORGANIZATIONS TO HELP YOU LOCATE THEM. AS FOR NOW, YOU HAVE
Sex is not bad, sex is not evil nor does it make you a sinner. Just as abortion and contraception does not make any one of us a killer. They do not have any argument so they go out of their way to harass and hurl vicious -and viciously untrue- names and words at you.
I am lucky; I am only disturbed by these morons because I know some women do get hurt and feel bad because of these anti-lifers who harass, abuse and torment innocent, good women for a medical procedure or for trying to avoid getting pregnant period.
Being responsible, be it via an abortion or contraception, is the RIGHT thing to do. Minding ones own business, that is the RIGHT thing to do. Not gathering in hoards trying to use the Christian fear tactic mania on innocent and vulnerable women they know nothing about.
I do support safe sex, of course. But I also realize things can happen be it the contraception (of ANY sort; pills included!) can fail. I also know there are times protected sex is not really an option. Just because they want to demonize people, I’m sorry, that’s not right…
I meant to say, just because they demonize WOMEN for being sexually active, that does not mean they are in the right. Sex is not a “bad” thing so long as you consent; don’t ever let these lying, deceit driven, abusive and harassing weirdos make you feel bad about yourself. GOD WOMEN HAVE ABORTIONS; AND GOOD WOMEN HAVE SEX- … but regardless of if you are having sex or not, that is no ones business but your own.
They want to make you feel bad; if they had a just cause they wouldn’t have to resort to such sick, callous emotionally and mentally savage verbal/psychological attempts to make women feel we are bad or dirty. No.
I said this before but let me say it again;
if you have an unwanted pregnancy but people are trying to force you to keep it because you dared to have sex! That is another example of sick, heartless abuse on their part.
Once birth is given, that child, in my personal belief, should not be something people should be allowed to buy, sell or send away where it’ll be forgotten with all the others. All the while, the mother suffers a lot more than I previously knew trying to do what is right, based on lies because no one respects women enough to even speak truthfully or treat us with equal respect! It’s punishment, or a failed attempt on my end. I know I am right; you do NOT use a child to tell someone “you shouldn’t have had sex, young lady!” … Kids are not supposed to be used as a punishment to parent(s).
What a world. Punishing women for having sex by FORCING BIRTH IS BEYOND TWISTED AND NO WHERE IN THE SAME REGION AS BEING PRO-LIFE!
A new born, or any child for that matter, should never be used as a tool for punishing the couple or the female. A child is precious; and if you are not ready for whatever reason, remember to look at independent facts, remember to -above all else- listen to your heart- and please, do not ever, ever trust anything these abominable anti-life / anti-choice creeps say be it people you personally know or those who hang outside medical facilities for lack of a real life.
Inside you will know what is right for you and the potential organism growing into what will, if not aborted, become a child one day. Remember, your dreams, goals, feelings and life matter just as much as your health, both mental and physical, matter. How the possible child will live in the future matters also; and it will impact you as well…
And if you think of adoption, please research the billion dollar child selling industry in the states and listen to those who are aging out (the majority) speak on the hell they endured. Listen to the mothers speak, for no one tells them about the pain so many of them endure. An amazingly heartbreaking but much needed book of women sharing things most wouldn’t believe can be found on amazon by clicking here.
And though I hate to say it, the same tactics or close enough are used today on females, especially the afraid, hurt and confused. I actually saw someone post a question the other day asking how others suggested she tell one of two siblings that the little girl was to be adopted but her brother would be going back to the home alone. That is civil? That is pro-life?
IF YOU SAY YES, IT IS CIVIL TO FORCE A CHILD AND MOTHER APART AT BIRTH; YOU ARE BEYOND MY UNDERSTANDING, THANK THE GODS AS I NEVER WANT TO BE ON THAT SICK OF A LEVEL.
THAT IS CRUEL & EITHER YOU NEVER HAVE EXPERIENCED SUCH DEEP, LIFE FRAGMENTING TRAUMA; SUCH HAUNTED TURMOIL; SUCH INTENSE and STUPID! LONGING FOR YOUR MOTHER… OR, YOU WERE ONE OF THE FEW “LUCKY ONES” WHO MANAGED TO NOT EXPERIENCE MOST OF OUR REALITIES.
If a woman wants to do it after reading the facts on it, fine. I won’t judge nor protest. I have nothing to hide and I am not afraid of the truths in the research and reports of adoption / foster any more than I am afraid of the truths residing in the abortion papers.
I am only here to remind women that cruel monsters like your sort are wrong, and they deserve better all around. The choice is yours but never make it for anyone else. As I said, you know. Women have a special way of knowing…
But only the woman who will have to live with whatever the choice is. Not me (I’ll be aborting anyway soon & making a little short documentary of it all so we know what I’d do lol but I am not you…)
I beg you to listen to your heart; you know deep down the answer. Don’t let anyone stand in your way 🙂 Especially not the cruel, judgmental, hate filled ones continuing to whimper and shout derogatory words at you for going to the doctor. How Jesus of them (sarcasm, noted.) The best part is, they do all of this after bringing in a teen for an abortion the day before only to see the mother back outside the next day, still spreading hate and lies.
This has been noted by doctors and staff across America; their hypocrisy and two-faced behavior and actions makes me sick. Especially since they like to think they are “pro-life” – oh yes. How pro-life. How judgmental!
I also know what your ‘savior’ teaches as I’ve read your bible multiple times. Oddly, abortion is not only not once mentioned (and it was in practice long before Christianity came about), but Jesus never once spoke of behaving like you people do to others; especially those of us you look down on.
And while I may not be a Christian, I have a rather hard time believing he’d ever enjoy or support your cruel behaviors right before rushing off to church together! You all seem to really enjoy exploiting ‘hypocrites’ and being ‘fake christians.’
What is wrong is how these anti’s treat pregnant women who want to abort. This impacts multiple lives; if you feel abortion or adoption is right that is fine; just as I said in a previous post recently, make sure you know ALL the REAL FACTS -NOT JUST THE ANTI-CHOICE CREATED ONES- AND NOT JUST ON ABORTION BUT ON ADOPTION, TOO.
And never, ever forget; no matter what you decide, you are not a bad woman. But please do be a strong one and do what you know is right because only you know- I don’t know for you, nor do they. But inside, you feel it. Don’t let their fear tactics work and no, abortion is NOT for everyone I get that.
But before women go handing their now actual child over to other people, it’s time women knew before hand all of the consequences and ramifications it could have on her and will more like than not have on the child.
We deserve to know these things; everyone does! Truth in medicine, from the hormonal dangers of pregnancy in some women, to abortion and adoption all the way to child birth; we deserve to know all health -mental and physical- risks we face. Women are worth more than being lied to, deceived and verbally assaulted for doing what she knew to be the right thing. . . No matter what that right thing ended up being.
LOL, that reminds me somehow, a few anti’s enjoy telling me I should have been aborted; as though I’d disagree! But I am here now. And all I want is women to have the right to make their own choices, without LIES created by a bunch of zealots and abusers haunting their thoughts!
Article begins below.. Also, THANK YOU U.S. Federal Judge Haywood Gilliam !!!! For standing up against these … preposterously cruel and deceitful abusers! ROCK ON to you; please keep standing up for what is JUST!!
Republicans are working feverishly to eradicate women’s reproductive rights.
Since the conservative Supreme Court’s Hobby Lobby ruling gave religious corporations the right to withhold contraception coverage from their employees, the Vatican-affiliated religious right has been on a tear to allow every employer to punish women, married or otherwise, who dare to have sexual relations “without consequences.”
Although Trump is not remotely religious, and certainly not a Christian by any measure, his administration has spent no small amount of energy to make a “substantial number of women lose access to birth control coverage” because it is contrary to the 1968 Papal encyclical on life – the so-called Humanae Vitae.
Last Friday during a hearing in California to block Trump’s effort to allow more employers to withhold the “contraception benefit” in health plans on “religious and moral grounds,” U.S. Federal Judge Haywood Gilliam remarked that the goal of the evangelicals’ rule was specifically to withhold contraception from “a substantial number of women.” The case was a continuation of the Hobby Lobby ruling objecting to the “contraception mandate” in health plans.
That vile Hobby Lobby ruling did not prevent all women from taking advantage of the contraception benefit, so Trump’s evangelical rule change attempted to extend the religious right’s control over women’s reproductive rights. It was mere months after Trump’s poorly-attended inauguration that his evangelical cabal eliminated the “contraception benefit” to satisfy the theocratic anti-women’s movement.
Specifically, the rule change allows more employers, including publicly traded companies, to control women’s reproductive health under the guise of “religious liberty.” Private employers were also given authority to withhold contraception coverage on whatever they claim are “moral grounds.”
The rule change was set to go into effect on Monday past, but after deliberation Judge Gilliam issued a preliminary injunction on Sunday to stop the rules from going into effect; but only for the 12 states and the District of Columbia that joined California to protect women’s bodily autonomy.
Judge Gilliam had previously blocked an “interim version” of the evangelicals’ rules, and equally noteworthy that his decision was upheld by a federal appellate court just last month. The latest case was necessary because the Trump evangelicals “finalized” the rules prompting another legal challenge by California, 12 other states, and the District of Columbia to protect women’s right to self-determination regarding reproduction.
The Judge did not block the rules from going into effect for the rest of the nation – likely because the remaining states are enamored with “trampling women’s access to basic reproductive care” and refused to join 13 other states to protect women’s reproductive rights. That was how California Attorney General Xavier Becerra framed what Trump and his religious right control-freaks’ goal is in expanding the Hobby Lobby decision across the workforce – “trample on women.” Mr. Becerra said:
“The law couldn’t be more clear — employers have no business interfering in women’s healthcare decisions. Today’s court ruling stops another attempt by the Trump Administration to trample on women’s access to basic reproductive care. It’s 2019, yet the Trump Administration is still trying to roll back women’s rights. Our coalition will continue to fight to ensure women have access to the reproductive healthcare they are guaranteed under the law.”
It is almost certain that the fight to ensure women’s freedom to make their own reproductive healthcare choices will continue despite the latest ruling. The 2014 Hobby Lobby case was the first time the Supreme Court recognized a for-profit corporation’s absurd claim of religious beliefs, and because that ruling was “limited to closely held corporations,” the anti-women’s choice movement has been frothing at the mouth to eliminate that “limitation;” anything to give greater numbers of employers authority to control women’s reproductive health choices.
It is worth remarking that President Barack Obama went to great lengths to accommodate all manner of anti-women’s organizations’ so-called religious objections to women marking their own reproductive health choices, but it was never enough.The anti-women’s rights movement objects to any woman deciding her own reproductive health and despite the law, they will not rest until all women are put in a place the Vatican and personhood movement insists they belong – in perpetual birth mode.
At least women in California, Connecticut, Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, Maryland, Minnesota, New York, North Carolina, Rhode Island, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, and the District of Columbia still have a measure of bodily independence, but with Trump’s religious right judges on the High Court, it is likely that autonomy is in jeopardy.
That is the price women are going to pay because there is an unwritten law in America that citing religion as the reason for the never-ending attacks on women’s rights is tantamount to committing treason. It is high time for Americans, especially those concerned about women’s rights, to cease pretending that America is not lurching towards a theocracy. All of these vile Republican policies attacking women’s rights have only one source – religion.